MLM Prospecting: How To Overcome Your Fears And Recruit With Ease
You should know that mlm prospecting is the name of the game if you want success in network marketing. Facebook ppc, article marketing, video marketing, linked in, etc., these are merely strategies for lead generation. But what happens after you generate the lead? You’ll need to do something that most marketers fear the most, PICK UP THE PHONE!
I can feel that pain in your chest and that little shiver that went down your spine. You fear prospecting to the point where you engage in what’s called avoidance behaviors. I know you know what that is, but for those who don’t, I’ll explain it.
Basically, you do whatever it takes to avoid the perceived pain that you associate with mlm prospecting. That perceived pain could be rejection, hang-ups, failure. So what do you do? You write another article or blog post, waste time on Facebook, check your email every 15 seconds, refresh the back-office of your primary opportunity hoping and praying that someone magically signed up without you speaking to them (yeah right, don’t count on it), go make a sandwich, watch tv, read a book, etc.
You engage in any avoidance behavior to disassociate yourself from mlm prospecting.
And here’s the kicker…
To justify it all, you tell yourself you’re busy. HA! You’re busy all right, busy being efficient but not effective and you’re still broke.
Now right now, you maybe asking yourself, how in the world does she know that? It’s like she’s reading my mind. I know because it was me. I had a morbid fear of mlm prospecting and this is exactly what I would do. I know it’s insane, but sometimes we do insane things.
Cedrick Harris told me a while ago, if you don’t get over your fear of the phone, you will not make a dime in this industry. That’s the cold hard truth of the matter.
The First Steps To MLM Prospecting To Help You Overcome Your Fear
1) Change your thinking – You fear prospecting because you associate it with pain, rejection, etc. You have created a negative outcome in your mind and since what you focus on expands, that is exactly what you will get. The more you think it, the bigger it gets until it turns into a gripping, paralyzing fear.
Now, change your association to mlm prospecting. What will prospecting do for you? Build your confidence, build your bank account, enable you to take that vacation you’ve always wanted, big checks, a new car, rank advancement, etc.
Change what you associate prospecting with and let that be your focus. Write it down on a note card titled “What MLM Prospecting Gives Me”. Read it several times a day and before you pick up the phone.
Now, this is just to get you to pick up the phone. Once the other party gets on the line, your focus needs to shift from you, to them and their needs.
2) Build your confidence through self development - Mindset is everything when it comes to mlm prospecting. It is the foundation upon which you will build your business. Unstable, unsure foundation=Unstable unsure business.
You must learn to identify, excavate and evict all of the self-limiting doubts and beliefs you have about yourself; some of which you may not even be aware because they’re hidden deeply within your subconscious mind.
Reading the right books will help you do do that. Make a commitment to read 10 pages a day of a good book. Some excellent choices I recommend are, The Secret Code To Success by Noah St. John, Vincent Roazzi’s The Spirituality of Success, and Jeff Olson’s The Slight Edge.
Compound it with listening to 15 minutes of something good daily. You can go on YouTube and Google people like Jim Rohn, Tony Robbins, Les Brown, etc. There’s a ton of motivational, inspirational material online.
The small amount of time it takes to do this daily is nothing compared to the benefits you’ll gain for yourself, your business and life overall.
3) Get an attraction marketing system – Using an attraction marketing system allows you to generate leads while branding yourself, so you can be sure that people who leave their contact information want what you have to offer. They want to hear from you. You’re not chasing them, it’s the other way around. Why would someone leave their phone number for you to call them and then curse you out and hang up? Doesn’t make sense, does it?
Script For MLM Prospecting
Now that we’ve got your mind right, your confidence is built and you’re ready to charge ahead, what are you going to say to your prospects?
Many falter in this area, but you don’t have to. MLM prospecting is an art and to be great you must practice. It helped me to study and read scripts until I built up my confidence and was able to get in a flow.
Here’s an awesome script from Recruiting & Prospecting expert Todd Falcone that he uses to recruit professionals such as real estate agents, mortgage brokers, insurance agents, etc. Why?
Because their primary tasks include, selling, prospecting, interacting with people, overseeing responsibilities and they get paid from commissions. Sound familiar? They are already doing what we do as network marketers.
You can use this script when you’re out and about doing your daily routine.
If you pass a house for sale, jot down the number of the agent and address. When you go to the store or local restaurants, doctor’s appt, etc., pick up business cards.
Then call with this script:
You: Hello John Realtor. This is ______________. How are you? I saw your house for sale on 111 Street in Atlanta.
Them: They may respond, oh great, it’s still available, do you want to schedule a viewing?
You: Actually, I live in the area already. I’m an entrepreneur and I love working with super sharp people like yourself. My business is expanding in the area. John, I just have one question for you, do you keep your options open to generating cash flow outside of what you’re currently doing? (Do not pause until you’re done)
(You can adapt his to their profession and where you found their info)
If they say No: Great, just thank them for their time and end the call.
Most people will say Yes.
If they say Yes: You’ll need an easy “Go To” Business Script in your arsenal.
You can get INSTANT ACCESS to Todd’s scripts along with video for FREE . I’ve gone through it and it’s amazing. The bulk of it never changes, so you can have it memorized and begin to use it effectively in no time. Follow these steps and your mlm prospecting will be a breeze.
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Fantastic post Fontella! I love using scripts and I’ve found the real trick to prospecting success is just to do it consistently. Its only when you do it over and over again will begin to develop your skill sets!
Fontella Williams Reply:
February 3rd, 2011 at 10:39 pm
Thanks Yvar!
Fontella Williams Reply:
February 9th, 2011 at 5:14 pm
Absolutely right on Yvar! Doubts and fears can only be removed by consistent action.
Great tips. You have a funny personality in this post. Wonder why we are so scared of the phone when we are more than likely attracting people that are interested in your opportunity perhaps. If they signed on board for that particular product then more than likely they are gonna get it. But it doesn’t make sense to me that just because you fouled up on a conversation by not sounding very leadership like, that that would detour them to buy it. The success really comes from within not from a marketer that will jazz up a conversation to persuading you to buy it. That’s just my personal view on that. HA THanks for sharing
Steven Dean
Fontella Williams Reply:
February 9th, 2011 at 5:13 pm
Hey Steven, excellent points. It all starts in the mind with what you believe about yourself. When it comes to prospecting, you can never say the wrong thing to the right person and yo can never say the right thing to the wrong person.
beautiful post Fontella…Todd falcone is a master at prospecting his scripts are flawless…Prospecting is something you have to practice until you get good or great at it, and you won’t get good or great in front of a mirror but by actually getting on the phone with prospects
Fontella Williams Reply:
February 9th, 2011 at 5:11 pm
Thanks Tristan…you are right. You prepare with action. Herd that from another great, Dave Wood.
nice fontella keep on posting!
Fontella Williams Reply:
February 9th, 2011 at 5:05 pm
Thanks Staci
You have a great blog. Who put this together for you?
Fontella Williams Reply:
February 9th, 2011 at 5:04 pm
Thanks Ed. Id it myself, I still consider it a work in progress.
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Fontella Williams Reply:
February 11th, 2011 at 6:59 pm
Exactly…
Hey Fontella, Great post! These are some valuable Gold Nugget MLM Prospecting Tips Thanks for your sharing your insider secrets.
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Fontella Williams Reply:
October 31st, 2011 at 9:47 pm
@Jesse Meyers, Thanks Jesse